Family Means Father, Mother, I Love You
Love is the first family value
First family value is Dignity and Family Honor
Second Family Value is Temperance / peace / harmony
Third Family value is Decency and civility
Fourth Family value is Glory of our Forefathers
Fifth Family Value is austerity / Frugality
Sixth Family Value is Beauty
Seventh Family Value is Development
Friday, April 20, 2007
Communication Skills
Regardless of what business you are in or what you do, effective communication skills are essential for success. Communicating with others is an essential skill in business dealings, family affairs, and romantic relationships. Do you often find yourself misunderstanding others? Do you have difficulty getting your point across clearly? When it comes to communication, what you say and what you don't say are equally important. Being a good listener is quite crucial.
The purpose of communication is to get your message across to others clearly and unambiguously.
Four OK States of communication
The purpose of communication is to get your message across to others clearly and unambiguously.
Four OK States of communication
Emotional Competence
Emotional competence means:
Self Awareness
Self Control, Self Regulation and Adaptability
Self Motivation
It ias the understanding of the need to be normal and useful human being
It is the ability to recognize and manage one's own and others' emotions
It is to restrain impulses and to handle interpersonal relationships effectively.
Major components of emotional intelligence are:
Knowing our own emotions, managing our own emotions, motivating ourselves,
Recognizing the emotions of others and handling relationships
Self Awareness
Self Control, Self Regulation and Adaptability
Self Motivation
It ias the understanding of the need to be normal and useful human being
It is the ability to recognize and manage one's own and others' emotions
It is to restrain impulses and to handle interpersonal relationships effectively.
Major components of emotional intelligence are:
Knowing our own emotions, managing our own emotions, motivating ourselves,
Recognizing the emotions of others and handling relationships
Organisation
Imagine, however, if there was no semblance of order to our day. Upon waking one morning, we would see our clothes strewn across the floor, books and papers piled up everywhere, without arrangement or purpose. In addition, since there would be no plan for the day, we would not know what to do first. When we did take an action, it would be out of sequence - e.g. we might dress before we showered, or have our breakfast before brushing our teeth.
Imagine there is no orderliness in the environment. Sun rises one day in the east and the next day in the west. Imagine night lasts longer than 25 hours and rain falls night and day through out the year. Imagine there is no orderliness on the roads and vehicles pass through the way they like. Would not our lives be miserable?
Then what is organization? Organization is what enables the world to function in a systematic way.
There is the organization of life itself. First, we human beings are a complex organism, consisting of a number of internal systems - circulatory, digestive, nervous, thought processing, etc. - that coordinate and integrate with one another, forming the essential makeup of our being. These core systems of organization enables us to not only function as sentient beings but also to thrive.
Organization can enable vast accomplishment and success for the individual. Organization expresses for the individual at four levels - the physical, material, mental and vital.
At phyisical level, clean up yourself every morning.
At material level, keep all your things in order and have a clean environment
At mental level, reorient your emotions, feelings and attitudes
At vital level, organise your company, your time and schedule
Cleanliness, Orderliness, Systematic Functioning
Perhaps the most fundamental form of organization is taking to higher levels of cleanliness. Over the years we have seen that serious attempt to raise the level of cleanliness in our environment will not only produce physically pleasing results, but is also likely to attract sudden good fortune ? in the form of more money, sales, opportunity, and other positive benefits. For example, one man got down on his hands and knees one day to clean out the grit and grime in his refrigerator. At the very instant he rose from that effort, he received a call notifying him that he had just secured several months of new work -- when only a moment earlier he had nothing scheduled for the future. In another case, a consultant suggested to a manager that his staff clean up every trace of carbon particles used to produce carbon brushes for the auto industry. As soon as the effort was completed, a customer suddenly arrived from out of nowhere, and purchased his own firm?s entire carbon brush needs from that supplier. In yet a third incident, a businessperson decided to clean his slow-moving stocks of inventory in response to a suggestion by a wise consultant. Thereafter, (once again) a buyer suddenly appeared from out of nowhere and purchased all of the dead stocks. He then went on to buy an additional six months worth of the merchant?s inventory!
Though taking to higher levels of cleanliness can attract wonderful results, cleanliness reaches its apex and perfection when it is accompanied by orderliness - i.e. by putting things in their right place, sorting things out, arranging them in a logical manner, categorizing and dividing objects for easy access and retrieval, etc. For example, if a retail business selling to the public not only cleans up the tools and inventory strewn here and there in its stock yard, but places them in their right individual locations for easy access and retrieval, not only will efficiency be increased, but life is likely respond in kind. Likewise, if an individual not only cleans the papers, folders, and books left here and there on a table in an office, but also takes to finally organizing them in an orderly and systematic fashion, a sudden positive response is also likely to come her way. (By the way, in the incident where the individual cleaned his refrigerator attracting several months? worth of work, he not only scrubbed the filth, but also returned each grouping of foodstuffs to their designated areas.)
Where cleanliness makes objects presentable and useful, and orderliness places them in recognizable patterns, categories, et al for easy access, systemization goes much further - organizing them in their proper time sequence; and coordinating and integrating them with one another for greater efficiency, possibility, and results. Like cleanliness and orderliness, higher levels of systematic functioning can also invoke sudden powerful responses from life. For example, one company put in considerable time and effort to develop a software product, but after several months had not yet generated any sales. Then someone decided to reorganize parts of the program for greater consistency, ease of use, and integration with its other parts. The next morning, the business owner was stunned when the first order for the product came in over the web.
Among the ways we an organize ourselves are --
by organizing physical things around us-such as our home, our paperwork, our finance, etc.
by increasing our level of cleanliness and orderliness around us
by being punctual and on time
by prioritizing to whom our emotions and attention should go
by managing our time, our schedules, our work
by systematizing activities in our lives -- from cleaning and cooking to bookkeeping
by balancing our work load during the day
by coordinating and organizing our communications with others
by further organizing and distilling the knowledge we have in life
by delegating work, tasks, and duties to others when appropriate
by planning out our goals and aspirations
by sorting out in life what is truly important to us
by organize and prioritizing the personal values that are dear to us
by organizing in our mind our thoughts for better understanding
SELF-ANALYSIS
Using the list above think about 3-5 major areas of your life that can be organized. Consider how a lack of organization in each of these areas have been a hindrance to your success and happiness in life. Think about how you can change your level of organization so you can avoid such problems, and then come up with a very specific plan to improve yourself in these areas. Make a fully committed effort to carrying out your plan. As you make the ongoing effort keep track of how making the effort led to improvements in your life. Also watch for "life responses" where seemingly out of nowhere good things began to happen as a result of your new found commitment and effort to implement these new levels of organization in your life. Ultimately make organization a habit, and a way of life and value you cherish. You will succeed beyond your wildest dreams!
Source: http://www.gurusoftware.com/GuruNet/Personal/Topics/Organization.htm
There is a place for everything, and everything needs to be in its place,
Imagine there is no orderliness in the environment. Sun rises one day in the east and the next day in the west. Imagine night lasts longer than 25 hours and rain falls night and day through out the year. Imagine there is no orderliness on the roads and vehicles pass through the way they like. Would not our lives be miserable?
Then what is organization? Organization is what enables the world to function in a systematic way.
There is the organization of life itself. First, we human beings are a complex organism, consisting of a number of internal systems - circulatory, digestive, nervous, thought processing, etc. - that coordinate and integrate with one another, forming the essential makeup of our being. These core systems of organization enables us to not only function as sentient beings but also to thrive.
Organization can enable vast accomplishment and success for the individual. Organization expresses for the individual at four levels - the physical, material, mental and vital.
At phyisical level, clean up yourself every morning.
At material level, keep all your things in order and have a clean environment
At mental level, reorient your emotions, feelings and attitudes
At vital level, organise your company, your time and schedule
Cleanliness, Orderliness, Systematic Functioning
Perhaps the most fundamental form of organization is taking to higher levels of cleanliness. Over the years we have seen that serious attempt to raise the level of cleanliness in our environment will not only produce physically pleasing results, but is also likely to attract sudden good fortune ? in the form of more money, sales, opportunity, and other positive benefits. For example, one man got down on his hands and knees one day to clean out the grit and grime in his refrigerator. At the very instant he rose from that effort, he received a call notifying him that he had just secured several months of new work -- when only a moment earlier he had nothing scheduled for the future. In another case, a consultant suggested to a manager that his staff clean up every trace of carbon particles used to produce carbon brushes for the auto industry. As soon as the effort was completed, a customer suddenly arrived from out of nowhere, and purchased his own firm?s entire carbon brush needs from that supplier. In yet a third incident, a businessperson decided to clean his slow-moving stocks of inventory in response to a suggestion by a wise consultant. Thereafter, (once again) a buyer suddenly appeared from out of nowhere and purchased all of the dead stocks. He then went on to buy an additional six months worth of the merchant?s inventory!
Though taking to higher levels of cleanliness can attract wonderful results, cleanliness reaches its apex and perfection when it is accompanied by orderliness - i.e. by putting things in their right place, sorting things out, arranging them in a logical manner, categorizing and dividing objects for easy access and retrieval, etc. For example, if a retail business selling to the public not only cleans up the tools and inventory strewn here and there in its stock yard, but places them in their right individual locations for easy access and retrieval, not only will efficiency be increased, but life is likely respond in kind. Likewise, if an individual not only cleans the papers, folders, and books left here and there on a table in an office, but also takes to finally organizing them in an orderly and systematic fashion, a sudden positive response is also likely to come her way. (By the way, in the incident where the individual cleaned his refrigerator attracting several months? worth of work, he not only scrubbed the filth, but also returned each grouping of foodstuffs to their designated areas.)
Where cleanliness makes objects presentable and useful, and orderliness places them in recognizable patterns, categories, et al for easy access, systemization goes much further - organizing them in their proper time sequence; and coordinating and integrating them with one another for greater efficiency, possibility, and results. Like cleanliness and orderliness, higher levels of systematic functioning can also invoke sudden powerful responses from life. For example, one company put in considerable time and effort to develop a software product, but after several months had not yet generated any sales. Then someone decided to reorganize parts of the program for greater consistency, ease of use, and integration with its other parts. The next morning, the business owner was stunned when the first order for the product came in over the web.
Among the ways we an organize ourselves are --
by organizing physical things around us-such as our home, our paperwork, our finance, etc.
by increasing our level of cleanliness and orderliness around us
by being punctual and on time
by prioritizing to whom our emotions and attention should go
by managing our time, our schedules, our work
by systematizing activities in our lives -- from cleaning and cooking to bookkeeping
by balancing our work load during the day
by coordinating and organizing our communications with others
by further organizing and distilling the knowledge we have in life
by delegating work, tasks, and duties to others when appropriate
by planning out our goals and aspirations
by sorting out in life what is truly important to us
by organize and prioritizing the personal values that are dear to us
by organizing in our mind our thoughts for better understanding
SELF-ANALYSIS
Using the list above think about 3-5 major areas of your life that can be organized. Consider how a lack of organization in each of these areas have been a hindrance to your success and happiness in life. Think about how you can change your level of organization so you can avoid such problems, and then come up with a very specific plan to improve yourself in these areas. Make a fully committed effort to carrying out your plan. As you make the ongoing effort keep track of how making the effort led to improvements in your life. Also watch for "life responses" where seemingly out of nowhere good things began to happen as a result of your new found commitment and effort to implement these new levels of organization in your life. Ultimately make organization a habit, and a way of life and value you cherish. You will succeed beyond your wildest dreams!
Source: http://www.gurusoftware.com/GuruNet/Personal/Topics/Organization.htm
There is a place for everything, and everything needs to be in its place,
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